Zara “A.J.” Sobansky, Tristan Doner Obituary, Death Cause – A student from Millard North High School has been identified as the victim in an apparent murder-suicide that took place in west Omaha, school district officials confirmed. The tragic incident occurred on Friday night in the parking lot of Stokes Bar and Grill, located near 136th and California streets. According to police reports, officers were dispatched to the scene where they discovered two young individuals suffering from fatal gunshot wounds.
The victims were identified as 17-year-old Zara “A.J.” Sobansky and 18-year-old Tristan Doner. Investigators believe that Doner fatally shot Sobansky before taking his own life. The motive behind the act remains under investigation, but the current findings suggest it was a murder-suicide.
The news of Sobansky’s death has deeply affected the Millard Public Schools community. In a public statement, the district expressed its sorrow, saying it is “heartbroken” by the loss of such a promising student.
To support grieving students and staff, the district has made its crisis team available at Millard North High School. Counselors and mental health professionals are on hand to provide guidance and comfort to anyone struggling to process the tragic event.
Sobansky’s family also released a heartfelt statement through the school district, offering a glimpse into their child’s vibrant life and accomplishments. They described AJ as “smart, talented, and completely unique.” According to the family, Sobansky excelled academically and was highly engaged in various extracurricular activities.
During their sophomore year, Sobansky had a busy schedule filled with show choir practices and performances, as well as active participation in forensics, poetry, and theater. Most recently, Sobansky had taken the stage alongside friends in Millard North’s production of Mean Girls, a role that brought much joy to both AJ and those who knew them.
“We are so proud of AJ and thankful for the time we had. We will forever love AJ,” the family’s statement read, capturing the depth of their love and the magnitude of their loss.
As the Omaha community mourns, questions linger regarding the circumstances that led to this devastating event. Authorities continue to investigate in hopes of providing answers and closure to the families and friends affected.
Meanwhile, the school district is encouraging students and families to seek support if needed. In addition to the crisis team, Millard North High School is working to foster a compassionate environment where grieving students can process their emotions in a safe space.
This heartbreaking incident has cast a shadow over the school and the wider community, prompting discussions about mental health, relationship violence, and the importance of providing support to those in distress.
As the investigation unfolds, the focus remains on honoring the memory of Zara “A.J.” Sobansky, offering solace to the grieving family, and supporting a school community united in sorrow.